My helpline is always open

Was looking at my MSN contact list, and saw SQ had the words "Sadz" beside his name... Out of kapo-ness I msg him and asked what happened.... (this is how we should spot our friends' problems from tiny little details..)

hmm.. SQ just broke with his girl friend... relationship of around 3-4 yrs? Reason: different frequency. Real Reason: different religion. She is a Christian and he is not. (I respect religion for what it is, but... ) So I went on to talk to SQ about it, and tried to direct his attention away by talking cock with him... hmm the fact that he can talk cock means he has recovered quite a bit from that love wound~ Oh I chatted on with him about the navy.. (he's a naval officer, commissioned by HM the Queen) That sure made him feel helluva better. Then dunno why he took turn to console me also.. (err... I'm okay for sometime already, so.. thanks)

Here is something I read from my sociology materials, which seem kinda sad:

Odd though it might seem, the best way to maximize the chances of getting married, for both sexes, is to have been married before! People who have been married and divorced are more likely to marry again than single people in comparable age groups are to marry for the first time.--- Anthony Giddens

Does that mean, we shouldn't take our first relationship so hard??